Tips for Moving Your Parents into Your Home

Moving can be difficult for a parent who has spent years—or in some cases, nearly a lifetime—living in the place they call home. It can also be a tough transition when mom or dad moves in with you. These helpful tips can make the process easier.

Maintain their routine.

Too much change can be upsetting, so encourage your parent to keep his or her daily schedule in tact. Even if your bedtime and mealtime is different, theirs shouldn’t have to be altered.

Incorporate their activities.

Does your mom like an afternoon walk? What television shows does your dad watch? Try to continue these favorite, daily activities. Help them to maintain their social activities, as well. For instance, invite your mom’s bridge club over or drive your parents to the local senior center. Finding an activity you both enjoy can help your parents feel more comfortable.

Keep their things.

Ask your parents which belongings they want to bring with them and decorate their living space with their possessions. Remember, it’s not about what you like, but it’s about helping them to feel more at home.

Ensure their safety.

A good way to assess your parent’s needs is to go through your house and view it through their eyes, as much as possible. If your parent uses a walker, use a walker. Wear dark sunglasses, if they have vision problems. Account for arthritis and other conditions, too. Ask yourself questions, like: Is the furniture high enough? Are doorknobs easy to turn? Are doorways wide enough?

Related INFORMATION FROM VNSNY

• Caring for an Aging Parent
• Balancing Work and Caregiving
• Avoiding Caregiver Burnout

OTHER HELPFUL RESOURCES

• This Caring Home
• Environmental Geriatrics

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