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Find Out Your Risk Level for Caregiver Burnout
An exciting proposition just landed in your inbox: a dear friend has an extra ticket to a hit Broadway show next week—are you able to join her as her guest? You reply:
A. “Yes!”, without a moment’s hesitation.
B. “Sounds like fun! But let me check my schedule and get back to you.”
C. “No, sorry, I couldn’t possibly.”
What does your answer say about your approach to caregiving?
If you answered…
A: You’re a Delegator.
You don’t let caregiving responsibilities get in the way of a full life. You’ve always been there for mom, but you know that you have to make time for yourself to give her the best care you can—and as long as her needs are properly met, you’re flexible with details like who fills in and how. You’ve lined up siblings, friends and outside support to help—you’ve even got a neighbor cooking a meal one night a week so you can meet friends for dinner! You’re thriving in your day job and managing to squeeze in yoga to help reduce stress. And you aren’t the only one who’s benefiting: The house is buzzing with activity, which keeps mom’s spirits up.
B: You’re an Organizer.
You run a tight ship, and you don’t step outside the door until every “i” is dotted and every “t” is crossed. But you know it’s important to give yourself a break, and after some trial and error, you’ve found someone you can trust to care for mom in your place. She’s responsible, she follows your instructions to the letter, and she has become an indispensable second-in-command. You’re accomplishing your caregiving duties and enjoying yourself, imagine that!
C: You’re a Perfectionist.
It’s been months since you’ve done anything for yourself—and it’s starting to show. You’re fatigued, depressed, coming down with recurrent colds, and even though your roots are showing, you can’t muster up the energy to care. You owe it to your mom to be there for her, and besides, no one can care for her the way you can. You can’t seem to let go of the reins, but you’re beginning to see the cracks in your caregiving operation and to realize that its long-term viability is untenable. The sensible course of action would be to enlist some help, but you don’t even know where to begin.
If option C sounds most like you, here are some tips that may help you bring balance to your situation.
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